I consider myself to be very happily married. I have a very supportive and loving husband who can makes me laugh every day. Like any married couple, we have strong aspects of our relationship as well as things we need to work on. Communicating clearly seems to be on our "work on" list. Last night it really showed through.
For the past week or so I've mentioned to Adam that I would like to trim Jonas's hair around his ears and neck line...just clean things up a bit and make it even. Adam kept telling me that he was just a baby and to not worry about it. Well, Jonas's hair has also bee getting more wave to it as the days have gone by. You can see it a little bit in the following picture.
Well, for some reason Adam doesn't care for curly hair on boys. Last night after I mentioned how his hair was getting curly, Adam suggested that we cut it. I agreed, but told him that I didn't want it super short...no buzz cut. Just clean it up along the edges where it's getting curly and is uneven. He agreed and we took Jonas up to the bathroom.
Adam pulled out the hair trimmer and said he was going to do a 2. (I had NO idea what length that meant, but trusted Adam since I had just given him an example of a little boy's hair who I thought was too short.) Well he starts running the trimmer along the back of Jonas's head, and I can't see from the angle I'm holding him. Then Adam gets to the side, and I see how short it is and start freaking out saying, "That's too short...I told you not that short." Adam says, "well, it's too late now." I start crying because he's giving my baby a buzz cut. Adam says, "Stop crying Laura. Our daughter is in the room and if she sees how you're reacting to this hair cut she's going to freak out when we have to take her to get her hair cut one day." So, I fought back the tears. Adam kept telling me how cute he looks. I kept telling him that Jonas looks like he's five now, or in the army, or it makes his face look fatter. It was all very dramatic. So, here's my baby...with a buzzed head. Seriously, who gives a two-and-a-half week old a buzz hair cut?

Apparently Adam and I need to work on our communication. Luckily, we love each other and hair grows back (unless you're Adam). ;)