There is a mother and daughter in our ward that remind me of my mom and me. They are best friends and always do fun things together. The daughter spoke in church on Sunday and mentioned how when she went out to Utah to go to school she still talked to her mom on the phone everyday. Adam leaned over to me and whispered, "Now that sounds familiar." I smiled at him and then I had to hold back the tears. Yes, I do talk to my mom on the phone everyday, but even so I still miss her terribly. This Mother's Day was especially hard due to some unexpected events that have occurred in our family recently. They have made me realize how truly irreplaceable my mom is and how important mothers are. Here are a few reasons why I love my mom:
1. She has always listened to me no matter how much I have to say or how late it is.
2. She is so optimistic. She is great about finding the good in every situation and making sure everyone else knows about that good as well.
3. She is very selfless. She serves others in a way that I pray I can one day. Her eyes just see what people need and she quietly gets to work helping them.
4. She tapes her face up in silly different ways to make the kids laugh.
5. She always stands up for what is right and isn't going to apologize for it.
6. She loves to discuss books with me.
7. She is a peacemaker. Whenever she was feeling upset or like she was going to lose her temper, she would quietly slip into another room until she felt she could talk about it without offending the Spirit.
8. She is patient.
9. I cannot count how many times I saw her studying the scriptures or praying.
10. She made us breakfast every morning and felt guilty when she gave us cereal once a month. She even made breakfast before early morning seminary...getting up around 4:30 or 5am to make it.
11. She likes to play games.
12. She sings all sorts of silly songs.
13. She makes the best biscuits and gravy.
14. She still talks to me on the phone everyday and is always interested in what I'm doing.
Those are just a few of the many things that make her the best mom. Despite missing my mom, I did have a wonderful Mother's Day. I was spoiled and didn't have to cook or clean a thing. I got to spend time with my lovely children that are my sunshine. And amazingly enough, they both cooperated for pictures!
I love my Charlotte. She is oh so obedient and happy to please us. She makes my job pretty easy. I love how girly she is, and she definitely wants to be the "second mother" to Jonas. I really hope that as a teenager we can be best friends because I know we would have so much fun together. She has a lot to say and has taught me that it is important to listen. I want to listen to what she has to say now, so that she'll know I will listen to her when she's older...when her problems are bigger than a brother who wrecked the tower she built.

My Jonas makes my heart smile. He is so busy and curious. I love watching him as he debates between what is more important: obeying mom or figuring out how how things work. He has taught me a lot about being a mom...that I don't have all the answers, and that what is best for C isn't necessarily best for J. It's helped me better understand how Heavenly Father can love all his children and how he has a different plan for each of us. I love how quickly Jonas will apologize and forgive. He has a big heart.
Love these kids! Love my life! Love my mom!
Happy Mother's Day (I know, I'm a few days late!)